Trying to figure out what love is

Maybe I’m terrible for saying this, but love has no definition to me. I was at home earlier listening to a playlist and broke down crying. I started writing in my journal all about self hatred and hating my life situation due to having roommates and not making as much as I’d like. The thing was, I don’t hate anyone but myself. And that self hatred comes from not feeling i have a purpose or understand what love is.

Love is a choice until that choice has no value to you. How does one find that value and meaning? How does one choose to love another? How does one fill that void in themselves? If i was in your position, I’d probably crack. Be strong and thanks for sharing.

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