Trying to Understand Emotions

I appreciate your insight. I tried to be as objective as possible in this post (hence what she does or says) as I didn’t want to paint something that might be understood someway or another.

There aren’t issues with unreciprocated attention or curiosity. I’ve asked many of the questions she’s asked me and of course, I’ve gotten to know much about her and why she’s a great friend haha. Our conversations are quite entertaining fir both of us and any candid discussion we acknowledge and appreciate our mutual honesty and openness - except with this regard on how we feel about each other beyond friends.

My reservations come because of a few comments shes made which seem to conflict with what would otherwise be a clear signal.

I’m attracted to her personality and how she makes me feel - she’s admirable and a joy to be around; she says the same about me. Objectively she is pretty to me, but, again, I know I need to draw a line, I’m just not sure where.

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