Twenty-six percent of Americans ages 18 and up didn't have sex once over the past 12 months, according to the 2021 General Social Survey.

I think that, since this is a long term partner you are talking about, you should focus more on the romance than the physical. Not to say that it is not physical, but early on, sex can be awkward. You presumably are familiar with being intimate with your partner in a manner short of sex, so you should continue to kiss and hold and caress in that same way. The penetration can happen while you continue to engage in a familiar way. You will soon figure out what each other like and your sex life can evolve, but I think you can at least avoid making it awkward by making sure you are keeping your contact familiar while moving into new territory.

But the thing about sex is that it is so different for every person, so you sort of just need to find your way.

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