Actually yes. But when it comes down to the sexual stuff the therapist is pretty useless. I mean all they can do is encourage me to, as you say, make friends and hopefully meet someone. And that may work, im not knocking it, its just that I'm so far behind when it comes to attraction based social interactions.

I can communicate normally or without sexual tension better than people around me. I know this because I do it on a regular basis.

Add sexual intent to the mix and I am suddenly a cripple. Again, understandable because I should have practiced when I was 14, 16, 18, etc. Like everyone else.

I'll see about the social circle. Problem is I meet a new group of friends and suddenly there is pressure on me. Know why? Because let's say I meet a cute girl in that circle. I try and date her. My skills are sub par and I make a fool of myself. No problem. But now she talks to the rest of the group and I'm suddenly an outlier.

Its not all black and white man. I'm extremely confident in certain areas and conversations but when it comes to sex and dating my lack of confidence is justified because im 10 years behind everyone else.