Yeah I know haha, when I used to be involved with law enforcement we'd get calls all the time along the lines of:

"This person is talking shit about me on Facebook and I want them to stop"

"Ok, has this person communicated any sort of threat?"

"No he's just talking about me"

"Do you know where they are located?"

"3 states away"

"Have you tried blocking them?"

".. no? If I did that how would I know what they're saying about me?"

Also the same reason I removed almost all my social media. Too much BS lol.

My point is: people that down voted probably fit the above narrative. That is; want to call someone to solve their problems, don't take initiative to just remove the person from their lives.

Not saying that about OP at all, OP Has a totally different situation where his info overall is already leaked. But still the above or the followed up reply should be good guidance on resolving his dilemma. Best of luck to you OP!