Two more open-ended questions. Shorter this time!

You wanna try knowing my perceiving functions by me doing the questioning? If you do agree whilst reading this, then let me start.

Did you create this post for fun? Seeing your type as an ENFJ, was there some part in your mind which told you unconsciously that you want to connect with people? Was this a self-created test for you to practice typing others? Are you secretly hoping that you would meet someone here? I'm not really that sure, but everytime an ENFJ comes to my mind, especially those with well-developed Ni, there is some unrealistic desire they have to meet someone in some place they can call as "special."

And one question which is completely unrelated to my previous questions... How does Se affect an ENFJ's lifestyle?

Oh right, if I were to type myself according to how I studied and understood the functions, I would be an xNTJ, but leaning more on introversion rather than extraversion. How did I say this? I see no Ne living within me. It's really hard for me to come up of something from nothing. The images and plans I form in my mind are from past experiences I have witnessed. As for my sensing functions, well... I have somewhat decent Se. The reason why I stated that I was leaning to introversion is because even how much decency I can see in my Se, it's always one step behind my Fi. No matter how I want to turn off my Fi, I can't. Just by looking at the inbox of my phone, oh boy are there a lot of undeleted messages from a long time. For no reason why, I don't want to delete them. I believe this is one from the many little things Fi can affect a person's lifestyle.

Maybe I'll take this opportunity to share and ask about my thoughts. For a very very long long time, I was fascinated by ENFJ's. On the first time I have interacted with an ENFJ in person, I thought "this person definitely fits my definition for [alien]." As I got to know ENFJ's more, behind that never-ending cheerful face is something they don't share. From all the ENFJ's I've met (I only met a few because your types are pretty damn rare), all of them... and I mean all of them foster a facade. I told myself that if I were to meet a new ENFJ, I'll make sure to bring a shovel so I can dig deeper.

As I tried to study more of ENFJ's, I think I tripped. I'm being attracted to these people. I'm referring to Fe in general, but what separated my idea of ENFJ's and ESFJ's is that an ENFJ will be more likely to be understanding towards another person. What separates my idea of ExFJ's from IxFJ's is that you see more Fe in ExFJ than IxFJ (obviously). (also obviously) Extroverts interact more than introverts. If I were to play a game called "spot the INFJ", it would still be easier for me to spot the seven dragon balls than an actual, living, not-from-the-internet INFJ. If I were to discuss more of my observations to Fe users in general (including TP's), it would take long so I'll just get to my question. What do you people have that makes you attractive? Why the hell am I attracted to ENFJ's? Why do I feel like I'm Lex Luthor and ENFJ's are Superman who's here to foil everything?

Damn... this reply is too hard and embarrassing to read. Posting a reply like this is against myself, but still... for the glory of research.

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