unhealthy 2's. the manipulation is real. your pride has taken you hostage and you aren't even aware of the things you are saying and doing to feed it. you also lack boundaries. push your own agenda, bc you want to "help" so badly...you don't stop to ask yourself if it's helping or hurting. Also, take care of yourself so we don't have to take care of you. no one cares how many people you helped today if you don't help yourself enough to simply be present when im talking to you. you're a hampster on a spinny wheel thing and you are just doing it. re-fuel and love yourself. let others help you. love isnt earned. but trust is. and its hard to trust someone when their motive's appear to just make theirselves feel good. i wish you would be yourself and say what you feel...i would love that