I don’t see it as super disrespectful either. It’d be different if he was replying to people coming on to him or saying they have crushes. Dreams are weird and uncontrollable mostly. Based on the reply she may have been using it as a roundabout way to get his attention but it isn’t him outright flirting. It seems more bragging than anything. I agree with the others though that Cate probably wouldn’t laugh but everyone has different levels of security in themselves and their relationships. I might be uncomfortable too but if my husband got all the comments Tyler does then this isn’t much in comparison to the doting ones. Someone can’t force him to have an affair if he doesn’t want to.