Just a note that the International Building Code has required EV charging since 2021 and many progressive states have put it into code before then (WA included it in 2018). So they are mandated in new buildings (now I can't say whether enough are mandated). The medium-sized City I work for had EV installed around town in public garages and such in 2012 as a pilot project (I'm sure heavily grant-funded); these chargers are just now getting consistent use. In my moderately sketchy neighborhood, many people do charge from their homes to the street and I've seen this in even denser places (Berlin) for a while now. I agree though, it's going to be painful in the beginning.