I agree that the LS isn't a fix in any way . Having many years experience i am no stranger to knowing that .It does not solve a couples problem. That's not what's trying to be done here. I am told she knows and stated she didn't want to cause a problem . My determination is because I then become be the reason for their friendship ending as a direct result it the stay not happening. My confusion is will I grow by pushing through my unease in exchange for my SO happiness or does the growth come from working through his disappointment.he would have not doing this . Resentment is not somethingvidcwant us to be dealing wirh long term .The first is what I know in general the second leaves me feeling bad .