Unpopular opinion

why would other men complimenting you, make you more beautiful

I can explain this phenomenon with a bit of history and culture. The “ideal body type” for women constantly evolves over time and varies between cultures. Look at American culture and fat voluptuous ass. In the 90s saying a girl had a fatty was an insult! What gives things value is a combination of scarcity and demand so when you have the girl with the fatty that everyone wants that makes you the man. In other words, when men find your girlfriend attractive this boosts her value which boosts your status. The ideal woman for a given culture is defined by the people within it which can result in this strange paradox that other people finding your girlfriend hot makes you find her more hot and valuable. As for the rest of the OP, I couldn’t comprehend a single fucking sentence.

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