You maybe right, I am considering it all. Well I never have been one of those highly sexual people, even dating women when I really thought about it, many had slept with other men while with me. Or I suspect they did, got dumped by a few for other guys outright. I guess I chose to forget or write those off but was a few times. Hell, I even didnt have sex on my honeymoon, is that really odd or just perception? Well I do have a gut, gained about 50 lbs since our open time a few yrs back. That doesnt help the size, Im avg I think but have been called thin down there. My game has never been great, didnt know this until my wife opened our marriage up and she was honest with me. No other woman ever really told me this. Bad side of getting the truth is makes it really hard to stay hard as I feel judged in bed and the 3-4 times we had sex in last 6 yrs, I couldnt stay hard or I came within seconds, twice the moment I entered her. She asked me why I pulled out when I came but didnt want to say I was just trying not to orgasm.