I feel for short guys, and I know that unlike weight you can't control it. I'm fairly average in height, so it doesn't affect me, but I don't think it's something that is fair to judge all girls on. I know several very tall girls that have been judged because of their height (though it probably isn't as severe). It's just about finding who's right for you. Maybe their in a minority, but there are girls who love short guys, and their are guys who love tall girls. There are some girls who love guys less fit than them, and there are some guys who love girls stronger than them. Etc, etc. Maybe it seems unfair, and maybe it is, but it's not like you lose anything by trying.