Update - I [21M] don't know if I'm being a rich ignorant asshole or if my girlfriend [20F] is exaggerating her schoolwork

But yeah, silly OP for being understanding and helping his partner during a demanding time, right?

I never said he shouldn't, read again. my comment was meant to highlight how nobody considered OPs sacrifices to offer his girlfriend an easier life and how his girlfriend was actually the one not managing her time well enough to both be able to study and taking care of the house which c'mon how hard is that, 2 people herself included, both young no kids and are away most of the time.

Everybody is picking on OP for being "privileged" cause he's had his parent's wealth to care care of him.

Well guess what, his 20 years old girlfriend is also privileged enough to be taken care of by a 21 year old guy who is not even her family as in OP's parents case but merely her boyfriend.

All she has to do is clean a probably relatively clean house twice or three times a week and probably fix a meal once in a while, since they are young and rich probably eat a lot outside or takeaways. Oh yeah and probably do the laundry twice a week.

How long does that take in exchange for not paying for nothing? I live alone and it takes me about 4/6 hours every week to do all these "chores" if somebody were to offer me free housing and everything in exchange for let's say 15 hours a week of chores I would do it in a heartbeat.

Everybody is acting like op is an entitled rich bitch while nobody is addressing his girlfriend behavior.

Read This:

I'm a 21 year old providing for my 20 year old girlfriend while she studies and I work full time. I didn't ask but she offered to take care of the house chores to repay me for taking care of her but lately she isn't doing this while I still provide for her everyday.

Reddit what do I do, is this normal, am I being taken advantage of?

What would you answer?

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