i'm sorry that happens to you. Is there anything you can do for it so you can have sex without pain? I can't have sex with out pain.

i'm glad you brought that up to me. I have my follow up gyn appointment next week. I will bring that up to her and ask her if she thinks this is the case. I know she has to use the speculum they use on children. I thought that was because of menopause and loss of elasticity. You have made a very good point.

I also have also no sexual experience due to my ex (married/with him 25 years) not being able to keep an erection, cumming as soon as he entered me. He would then use a finger on me. He would blame me for his condition telling me I was too small.

I'm 53, and only have been with a couple guys since him and just for a limited amount of times. I was able to have sex, the guys said it felt great to them. I want to brag now because they were all much younger; 23-28 years old. haha! Fuck Buddies! But it wasn't too painful at the time even though I was in perimenopause.

Now, I don't really know. It might be fine if it's not some old man with a complex.