Stripper here . So wait. How good of a friend is Rebecca ? Like your bestie , or someone you both had been introduced. Honestly a lot more background would be really helpful . Honestly I would never dance for my friends guy , cuz that sounds like an awful idea . Especially a bachelor party . And he hid it from you ? Sounds like she did too . It also matters , did his friends surprise him at there house with strippers or did he go to the club ? All these things matter but either way he made a lot of poor choices . There’s a very good chance that the scenario played out either way..... honestly , I hate giving ppl advise on this . But dump him . That’s a big lie , because either way he’s been keeping a huge secret from you . And why did I find out now ?