[UPDATE] I [34m] recently found out that my S/O [32f] had sex with another guy immediately before our first date. This made me feel really upset, and I can't quite pinpoint what I should do.

Listen man, follow your gut instinct. You’re completely right, no man has a right to a woman’s body. But you also have a right to feel uncomfortable with her decision and how it’s made you feel. You have a right to feel a lack of respect from her to you as it would feel disrespectful in any scenario whether the genders are reversed or not.

There are so many amazing girls out there that would not treat you this way. I don’t want to assume things but I get the sense this situation has shaken your confidence some, you don’t deserve that man. You’ve heard her side of the story and feelings from the sound of things, but stand up for your feelings and self confidence.

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