[UPDATE] AITA for telling my step-cousin in a bikini that she was looking good?

Did she message each person that commented that she was uncomfortable

she said she didn't appreciate her family members looking at pictures like that. and i agree with you. it was just a complement that had no pervy intentions. OP is in no way an asshole for that. comments like "It is his fault. Having good intentions doesn’t make her feeling uncomfortable not his fault. Saying she took it the wrong way is dismissive" really makes me wonder what even are people thinking these days. it was just a complement that he had no ill intentions and if it made her uncomfortable, then okay, OP should just apologize and avoid doing it ever again. saying that he is a creepy asshole for commenting that is fucked up

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