UPDATE Boyfriend (25m) refuses to touch my (24f) vagina now since I don't want to do anal.

Dude, read the original post and her comments as well.

She expects him to give her oral, but won't give him oral "because that's where pee comes out", won't have anything to do with his butt, (remote control vibrator? Tail plug she can pull on without being anywhere near?). Like it sounds like spreading her legs is as far as she goes when it comes to being involved in their sexlife.

Of course the dude's frustrated. Sure he could've brought it up in a better way, or looked into some options that includes her in his butt-stuff without making her have to touch it directly (maybe she'd even be cool with disposable rubber gloves, who knows?), but she does not do anything for him in the bedroom, at all.

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