Update: Girlfriend (29F) has a best friend (38M) that she bought a magnetic heart bracelet for that separates in two pieces for his birthday. One for her and one for him. At what point is it no longer insecurity from me (35M) and emotionally cheating on her part?

I don’t want to scare you bro, but almost all of my girlfriends have been those type of girls, not super girly, say they all have only guy friends because it’s “less drama” etc, and I was insecure so I always snuck into their phones and every SINGLE one was cheating to some extent. I mean I dated at least 10 girls like that. Maybe I got a bad string of luck. Maybe I attracted the wrong ones. But I know I will never date any girl who doesn’t have girlfriends anymore. You do what you feel is right, obviously, but just wanted to share my lil story. The worst part was they always told all our friends that I did that, and that I never trusted them and I PUSHED them into cheating, when I confronted them about it. It just shows that it was a game all along.

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