UPDATE: Me (25M) and my GF (25F). What to do after a shitty comment post sex?

Glad it worked out for OP. And I hope more women realize how fucked up it can be to compare men as lovers to each other, especially in the way OP's girlfriend did.

Not that men don't do the same to women, but I feel like women need to know how difficult this can be for men to move past.

There is this fear in men (maybe women too) that the woman is "settling" for us. That she really prefers the asshole with the tattoos. That she is only fucking us so that we will give her what she really wants, a family and home.

There is this fear of being used that is very real for men. That the woman is marrying us only for material reasons and that she doesn't really love us.

And since sexual satisfaction is so wrapped up in a women's head, it's a sign that she isn't into as us if she isn't as sexually satisfied.

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