Update: Me [31 M] with my fiance [33 F] being guilt tripped about plans I knew nothing about

Here is your part in this: We're going to have to talk sooner or later last night your reaction the way you reacted how simple it could have been worked out how you manipulated the conversation and was very passive agressive not wanting to fix it you were sad because i was put in a bad spot due to plans you never told me about. and instead of trying to come up with a solution you just started being passive agressive and trying to guilt trip me i told you that this weekend would be the dinner. i didnt tell you what day. you never told me about your plans, so my parents arranged saturday then i told you and all of the sudden "well my family plans are fucked now" because of it you just dont want to take any type of agency for what happened thats all nothing is your fault and im an insenstive jerk i didn't forget anything youre the one who brought up your dead parent and threw it in my face this is getting nowhere

You are blaming her for everything and failing to see her point of view. You are just as bad as she is.

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