Update: Me [43F/44M] with our son [13 M] i found evidence that my son has been catfishing and harassing/bullying people (mostly adults he initially meets on dating sites)

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"He has A LOT of electronics (2 laptops, a desktop, ipad, iphone, ipod etc) and we allow him free reign over his items. He protects them all with various passwords and we make no effort to monitor his activity on them. He is extremely smart and very gifted with technology (he actually makes reasonably good money developing apps) and we try to support him in this by allowing him access to any tech item he wants. I just say this all b/c it is important based on what i found. It turns out that for the last few months (might be much longer, i dont know) he has been catfishing men on various dating sites. He pretends to be a pretty girl to lure them in then gets them to have very detailed and graphic discussions about their sexuality.

Then after a few weeks if chatting/texting he begins harassing/stalking them online/via text messages and basically bullying/threatening them. I dont want to go into too many details but he is currently doing this to (at least) 5 people. All of these people live in our city. None of these people know they are talking to a 13 year old kid. He has done some very terrible things via these chats including recieving sexually explicit videos (i.e requesting to be sent masterbation videos of the person he is catfishing) and blackmailing the person who sent it into harassing (all via online, never in person) another one of his victims. He has created fake fetlife/grindr/tinder/okcupid/etc accounts using his victims images."

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