(Update) My(31) fiancee(31) said that she misses the pressure of feeling filled

You guys are being so reactive about the penis issue here. His last thread, he literally wrote back every person who brought up the idea of sex toys, saying how that would feel so emasculating to him. Showing that regardless of what his penis size it is, he simply isn’t willing to try anything else to please her. You can paint this as her saying something bitchy blah blah blah and THATS what the real problem is.... But the end result is the same this guy has a tiny dick, and isn’t willing to use my toy bigger than his own penis because of his fragile ego.

You guys say to bring up the size of his penis is unforgivable. However, do you think she should live the rest of her life with a micropenis, and never feeling sexual gratification? And lie about it forever?? She should just never enjoy sex, so you don’t have to face the reality of your penis size?

If your girlfriend had a massive vagina and you couldn’t feel it during sex (which DOES NOT exist btw) and she wouldn’t use any toys on you or other forms of pleasure, wouldn’t you bring it up?? The guy is being a spoiled brat.

Regardless of him dumping this girl or not, this will be an issue for him for ever! And instead of him trying to grow from it and learn how to please his partner better, he is instead acting in anger and basically saying “fuck everyone else, My penis is definitely big enough! I don’t need to use any dildos on my girlfriend!” It’s stupid and counterproductive. Drop your fucking fragile ego bullshit and accept your penis isn’t big enough and try some new shit. She can lie to you and tell you it’s the biggest cock she ever saw, doesn’t change how it feels to her during sex. end of story. Are you really so self-centered that you would rather your significant other never feel satisfaction during sex, so that you don’t have to set aside masculinity and use a dildo on her? That’s like some real self centered shit.

And the worst part here is all you guys bringing up white-Knight-ism, like that’s the issue here. The issue here is his incredible level of entitlement and Stubbornness to face the facts..This has nothing to do with being a white night, this has to do with pleasing your sexual partner. If genders were reversed, I would say the same shit. Y’all are just being childish

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