[Update] My [33M] wife's[32F] best friend from childhood [32M] is dying. He asked to spent a night with her, she's considering it

I get that you are upset, but have you thought about the fact that Neil pressured her further once she was alone with him and that's part of why she was so distant and shaky and didn't want you to touch her?

Her being wet doesn't mean she liked it. That's just how bodies work. She was crying and didn't want you to touch her. If Neil was so brazen as to ask and manipulate her before she got there, I can't even imagine what he could've said or done to her when she was actually alone with him, in a very vulnerable state.

You've already made your choice but, I just had to put this out there as something to consider, especially if you love her.

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