Don't know if you'll see this at all, but I was kind of like your girlfriend about a year ago. First few months in a relationship with my boyfriend, constantly drunk at the bar he went to, and peed on him (and his coworker) while blackout drunk.

I ended up trying to either stab himself or me one night after hysterically sobbing for hours on end. He told me the next day and I've never been so sad/disappointed in myself. I took a very long break from drinking and know my limit now.

I'm glad your girlfriend is okay and probably will get over the horrible experience of accidentally shitting herself, but allowing yourself to become that blackout drunk can open a lot of mental/emotional doors you didn't want open. It seems she has a problem with drinking just like I did and I really hope it doesn't take her a mistake like mine to realize it isn't quite worth it.

Best of luck to you and her! And also, thanks for being an awesome boyfriend. It means a lot to shitty (no pun intended) drunks like us.