Hi u/sunsetwildfire. I know I'm getting on this thread pretty late in the game, but I scanned the comments and didn't see anyone else with my perspective so I thought it might be worth me chiming in. My wife has MRKH. I don't remember what number date it was that she told me, I think she even told me over the phone or text. I remember needing some time to process it, but wanted to make plans to see her again ASAP so she knew it wasn't necessarily a dealbreaker for me. I remember thinking 'well, what are my options here, I could either not have PIV sex potentially ever again and see where this so far otherwise awesome relationship goes, or I could potentially not have PIV sex ever agin and not have this amazing person in my life. Either way I'm not having PIV sex anytime in the near future, and I think I'd be happier continuing getting to know her.' So that's what I did and I can't imagine life without her. She's got some other health conditions that limit what we can do in the bedroom, and how often, so sometimes that can be a little frustrating, but I still have both my hands so it's not the end of the world for me. I don't think you have any responsibility to tell any future dates until you get to the point where you'd want to have sex with them. If it wouldn't be on the table yet anyways I don't think it's any of their business. You don't owe anyone anything. I'd echo all the encouragement to take some time to work on you, continue to heal, call that number and talk to someone when you're ready. Watch some Mr. Rogers or Bob Ross. MRKH is a part of you but it doesn't have to define you. You seem like a cool person so just give yourself time and don't give up. Hope this helps.