Update Post on GF Lying to Me - how would should I respond to this insane string of lies?

I hate to break it to you but she's looking for someone to marry her so she can become a U.S. Resident, and eventually a U.S. Citizen. All that talk about "I'm in the U.S. for you", is her trying to make you feel guilt and obligation. She's hoping that eventually you'll marry her because she "sacrificed" so much by staying in the U.S. "to be with you".

She's lying to you because she doesn't want to blow her cover. She's having an affair with one of the guys. She could be "working" him to see if he marries her since you haven't. Or she's still waiting for you to marry her but she's cheating on you.

You have enough information already. It's up to you where you go from here.

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