Hey, OP. I hope you see this, but I'm late to the party.

My guess? And it's a very educated guess... is that Emma is his real girlfriend.

I dated a guy for a couple of years who lived an hour away from me. We got together a couple of times during the week and he spent the night at my house at least one night every single weekend. He always came to me. He claimed he had a lot of loud, messy roommates.

He was married. He was my boyfriend for 2 years, but he was married.

Here's the really sad part - several months after I found out, after he had left her (not my idea) and moved out, etc, we got back together. I would like to tell you that I am not an idiot, but I can't. Anyway, I bought all the stories about "bad situation, made mistakes, didn't know what to do, afraid of her and her father." yada yada. I ended up marrying him. We are still married.

Sounds like a happy ending, yes?

It's not. A few months ago I found his secret cell phone. He doesn't have another wife or girlfriend, but he was probably working on getting one. Oh, and he's had the phone for, like, 7 years. So yeah. Not only is your guy probably lying, but he's going to keep doing it.

If I were you, I would wait and see, though. THat is if you feel like having an adventure. I bet you that days before the wedding, he will be sick or be called out of town on an emergency. When you click back to see pictures of the wedding, he'll be there, but you won't. Or something along those lines. Or you could invite yourself to his house and see how that works out. Or you could just vow not to be as big an asshole as I am and not fall for this stupid shit.