you know the most important thing I've learned from circlejerking with all you feminizi sloots is that people, and guys in particular, need someone they can talk to. there's a running theme I've noticed with terpers where they see themselves as desperately lonely and out of options but their friends and families are completely unaware that they're having a hard time. As much of a hardon as they have about logic what TRP really subsists on is unaddressed emotions. Rage, depression, insecurity, uncertainty... perhaps the first step towards helping the kind of guys who resort to TRP out would be to lift the stigma that seems to exist around guys hashing out their feelings.

If you're angry, or depressed, or wondering why nobody seems to want you, you should be able to talk about what you're going through with a real human being. "Lose weight, get good sleep, work out and get fit, dress to flatter yourself, don't assume girls you are crushing on will know that you like them and come to you..." that advice, even in a tough-love format, is available without the corresponding misogyny of TRP.

I think that what attracts guys to TRP especially is the revenge aspect of it. It appeals to anger: "Join us and see why those bitches who rejected you will get what's coming to them" rather than "Do these things to make yourself more attractive and visible to women generally." The problem, other than the underlying rage issues that would make that revenge fantasy seem attractive, is that then you're locked into that false dichotomy. Now you're "with them" and if you disagree with a single tenet of their ideology you're a pussy mangina loser. And if you were in a bad enough place to come to TRP in the first place, another rejection is the last thing you can stomach, so you stay onboard and do as they say.