updated pic. working hair styles.

I think the biggest problem here is your makeup--- it's very Mimi from The Drew Carrey Show because of the blue eye shadow and hot pink lipstick.

I would definitely try for neutral eye shadow colors--- you can get the Maybelline The Nudes palette for like $10 and it's very versatile and actually quite good quality for the price. Blue is just a very dated look, and flattering on hardly anyone, plus it can look unintentionally draggish. It kind of struck me as an immediate giveaway.

Additionally, your brows are very light, so I would consider filling them in with a taupe to medium brown color, just to give them some more presence and help frame your face more. Drawing them in properly can also help femenize your face even more.

The false lashes look exactly that--- false. It could be either the lashes or the application, but the very straight line on the inside corner of your eye gives them away and, IMO, does more harm to the look than good. Maybe try with just some liner and mascara, and if you really feel you need to, supplement with those little individual clumps of lashes here and there--- they can give a much softer, more natural look. Honestly, don't feel bad about false lashes, I'm a cis woman with, IMO, pretty good makeup skills, but I suck at putting on falsies and making them look good and or natural.

The lip color alone actually isn't bad, just wasn't good in combination with the rest of the nakeup. I can't tell if you're wearing foundation or if it's the lighting, but if you are, it looks a little too yellow for your skin tone, or maybe it oxidized to that color, which could be fixed by using a primer.

Blush placement seems a little off to me, try keeping your face relaxed when you apply blush, as doing the smiling method to get it on the apples of your cheeks can actually end up getting the blush in a less flattering place.

Wow, that felt like a lot of negative criticism, so that all said, you do look female to me. Just a female who has room for improvement on her makeup skills. Keep on keepin' on!

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