Usually Amy has great advice but apparently she is not aware of a pretty simple explanation of this supposed issue...

They should DEFINITELY talk about it!! (And I actually totally missed where she said she’s fine with never having sex!)

It might help move toward some closure to know that he may just not be interested in the first place and it isn’t about her. The part about “choosing celibacy” really rubbed me the wrong way because maybe it isn’t a situation where he’s choosing anything. Amy seemed to be treating it as a cut and dry issue but it may be deeper than a lack of communication, which they most certainly have. In my opinion, discounting a potential source of the issue also doesn’t help determine a solution and may make the situation worse (especially if the wife shows her husband this or tries to say he’s choosing this if he actually isn’t).

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