I actually agree with you. Normally I stay out of things but my husband really is very sick and can’t do this alone right now. Especially if she’s going to try and keep his kids away. I really don’t care about her life and schedule, but I do care that she went out of her way to lie about the COVID risks they were (and are) exposing my stepkids (and therefore us) to. These aren’t normal times. I’m already well aware that nothing I say or do will change her behavior. The problem is, it’s hard to ignore her while my husband is sick and she’s harassing and threatening us via email daily. I can try to stop caring but I’m impacted nonetheless. Yes, it’s definitely affecting my mental health which is why I’ve reached out.