Okay. I will tell you guys.

For the visa thing I don't know the details. My girlfriend is a widow who married a Japanese man and they lived in Japan for 10 years. Her husband pasted away because he took his own life. In addition, her husband's friend raped her inside her own house and she was violently assaulted. Her husband knew his friend had a thing for her. Her husband was under a lot of pressure marrying a Latin and Japanese woman from the US. She learned the Japanese ways and etiquette very well. Being a foreigner who can speak Japanese fluently, she constantly had Japanese men lay eyes on her but her husband was always around to protect her. I'm not sure if her visa was expiring but her husband was alone and wanted to see be with her. Her husband was undergoing a lot of stress and being treated like a dog by his parents as a Japanese man who failed his family. They also have a child together who is a disabled child. Like the Japanese way, her husband had family issues but he would never disclose it to his wife because she told me if the man had issues, it was his responsibility to take care of it and leave those lot involved out of it. She worried for him but he would not disclose anything between what was happening between him and his family.

Not being able to see his wife and child who had no choice but to go back to the US, he committed suicide also during the time he was being belittled by his father like he shamed the family. He and his wife was blamed for delivering a handicap child. My girlfriend is a single mother, widow, and a survivor. She has been raped and sexually assaulted multiple of times both in the US and Japan. She was molested as a child. She went to therapy. This is why she feels safer in Japan.

I am not allowed to disclose this about her personal life but just so you know. Eventually I will delete this post later today.