This. Most care about personality. Of course we thirst over good looking women but when it comes irl, we just want a girl that is chill / easy to approach. Girls that are easy to be around with will definitely find someone crushing over them.

Basically a girl that you can talk to like she is a old mate. Bromance type beat.

One thing that girls do is gossip. Men dont do that. Yes we do talk shit but the difference is our shit talk isnt toxic. Grudges are another thing, the maximum grudge time for men is 5 days.

So if you want to fit in a bro group, be easy to approach, easy to hang around with, stop the toxicity that girls have. Thats it, literally nothing else.