We don't verify anything. The most we do is talk on the phone to setup the date, but it doesn't have to be a 4 way convo or anything. We don't swap a ton of pics, so if they are fake or can't setup a meeting then they don't get much and leave the chat pretty quickly.

We also meet people just through chat alone, we aren't fans of calling people we want to meet, fakes and liars, and forcing them to prove they are real.

If they are fake they can't prove they are real, if they are real and just think you are a paranoid prick they aren't going to prove they are real.

We have very active lives and adding swinging and meeting couples takes a ton of time. Most people don't ever want to meet, or we don't want to meet them. We aren't into verifying 20 times a week we are real.

If they aren't real they won't show up. In 20 years we have never had a couple not show up when we had a specific place and time to meet. We have had a few back out days before, but they tell us they are backing out.