Also, I disagree with your second paragraph.

If you Google “what to do if my husband yells at me” you’ll find all sorts of abuse support information.

When a man googles “what to do if my wife/girlfriend yells at me” a man is returned a list of sites telling him to listen better and, essentially, figure out what the man has done to deserve it.

Of course, I definitely believe that there are many local areas with conservative populations that say the things you’ve said. That’s foreign to me since I live in a hyper progressive area that is very suspicious of men. But I do know that Google is available everywhere.

And the internet certainly thinks it’s ok for women to yell at men but not the reverse.