1) the girls were old enough to make decisions. So stop acting like when you were 16 you didn’t know anything and was just completely oblivious to the fact that money and fame makes you want someone. For Christ sakes half of you weren’t even virgins at 16 and knew what you were doing. 2) he said plenty of times that the sex slave thing was an act as part of a kink and they were free to leave when they wanted to but they wanted to stay because who wouldn’t want to be with R. Kelly. And as for the peeing on the 15 year old he knew what he was doing and it’s no excuse for him for that but she knew as well and it’s easy to play Victim once you get told you are a victim but she thought it was perfectly fine to let her idol pee on her so no pity.