This is where I should have just left. This is where things had already gone so sideways that I should have just taken the loss and went home. Well, again...I'm am idiot. I put her in a headlock and and told her to stop. In my mind, this was a good idea. It would make her calm down, right? Wrong. In her mind, this was my attempt to kill her. She screamed "help" louder than I have ever heard anyone scream in my life...and wouldn't stop.

I believe this might be the passage they are referring to.

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