[Virginity] Have any men here resorted to prostitution in order to obtain sexual experience?

I fear that I will find an amazing girl and completely fuck it up

Yeah, but if your girl knew you fucked a prostitute to lose your virginity, that would be infinitely worse. An "amazing girl" wouldn't kick you out because you don't have much experience--an amazing girl would be patient and understand that 'practice makes perfect'. So you're suggesting lying and keeping a skeleton like that in your closet your entire life, because deceit is always the answer? I know you'll keep it a secret and take it to your grave, but being deceitful to a person you might build a life with--especially when you know it's something they would probably have a problem with (otherwise why keep it a secret)--is kind of shitty is it not? Then you'll be the guy who lost it to a prostitute, and the guy who has to keep an embarrassing secret for the rest of his life--you'll be lying about your values and who you are for the rest of your life.

The one thing I want to state is that your reasoning is based on the potential fallacy that you will somehow be better at sex, or lose your fears and therefore be able to approach any woman, or that your first unpaid sexual encounter will be good as a result of you hiring a prostitute. If you are a high anxiety person, who perhaps doesn't have the best social leverage, that will not change just because you fucked a prostitute once.

Do it or don't do it, but I dare you to first at least try putting yourself out there. How exactly do you plan on finding your perfect amazing girl after the prostitute? Work on that a bit first--it's not like once you lose it, having sex will suddenly be that much easier to acquire.

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