Parang same tayo ng situation. Mag-3 years na kami this year and first time naming hindi mag sex for over a month. Sobrang di ako okay doon kasi it's def out of the ordinary for us. Bukod pa dun, napansin ko na hindi siya makausap nang maayos lately. Yun bang magkukwentuhan kami tapos hindi na niya ko sasagutin kasi nagtatype siya sa phone o may naisip siya biglang iba. It's very dispriting. Nakaka-down. Alam kong mahal niya ako at loyal siya sakin. But that can happen whilst lacking effort sa relationship. I communicated with her and expressed what I needed sa relationship, and she delivered naman. Sa sex part, napapag-usapan namin yun and even though hindi pa rin kami nagsesex, wala akong sama ng loob sa kanya kasi nakakapag-usap kami at naiintindihan ko siya. I may have worries, but one thing I never have to worry about is how she feels about me.

Sana makapag-usap din kayo, OP, na may intensyon na intindihin ang isa't isa. Magkakampi kayo, your sentiments shouldnt clash against one another. Hope we get out of this sex rut soon lol