I guess I can’t really say as I’m a straight guy but you raise some points about his perceived attractiveness. Still I’m in pretty good shape, certainly not Tom Holland tier, and arguably better off in some ways like jaw and height. I do alright with women, get my share of compliments but also have been picked apart for flaws I see in Hollywood actors - Steve from Stranger Things comes to mind and he’s not an athlete.

I’m not pitying myself or saying I deserve better - women can and should reject me for whatever reason they want. I’m just still kind of convinced male actors have inflated attractiveness ratings and are less scrutinized as a bonus to their career. Female actresses actually have it worse sadly - they get negatively evaluated, objectified and scrutinized by men.