Weekly Advice Thread (1/7-1/13)

But psychologists say that if you have problems with being social what you do is break down the situations that you have trouble with. For example, if you are nervous about being at a party. Let's break down what things worry you. Let's start by introducing yourself to people. Let's break down that to first practicing to smile, shake hands and say your name. Go to a party and your task is to introduce yourself to 5 people. Do that and go home if you want. Master your ability to do it. Now let's go the something else you are not good at, and so on.

I used this method for having thing to say as openers to strangers at parties or anywhere really. Now I am quite good at it. Before that I did not k ow what to say to start a convo. Why not keep doing that with other aspects?

I don't think I really enjoy being at social situations. So I should not go? If I don't go how can I expect to meet women? Are you saying you need to be "born" in a certain way to enjoy a lot of casual sex with women?And if you are not that way right of the bat it's 'over'?

What I am trying to say is that me being me does not involve interacting much with people, going to social events or approaching women, how can I expect to live the sexual live that I want if I don't do that stuff?

/r/IncelTears Thread Parent