Weekly Check-In - July 02, 2018

I'm also new here. Hi!

My last relationship was over a year ago. We were together for a bit over a month, things were going better than I ever could've hoped: we talked for a couple of weeks before having a first date, hit it off and considered ourselves "dating" a couple of days later, and we were together for over a month afterwards. Then one day she up and ended it. No real explanation given. I had really fallen for this girl. I would later find out she lied to me about many things.

Anyway, I have NEVER had particularly good luck with the opposite sex. I have several female friends whom I have known for ages, but have never had any romantic attraction to (okay maybe one, but she's seeing a guy who is genuinely a good dude).

I have no clue how to meet people in the area I live in. It's a small redneck town. I am a metalhead who hates the bar scene and anything involving the outdoors. I have had zero luck in the OLD thing (I guess I did meet my aforementioned ex through some mutual friends on Facebook, if that counts). I just have nothing in common with what the women in this area seem to want: I'm not a good ol' boy who likes to fish, hunt, or drink beer.

Socially, I feel very out of place in the area I live in, making my relationship prospects very slim.

Then again, maybe I'm just ugly as fuck.

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