This weekend had been awful and it doesn't look like it's getting better anytime soon. My boyfriend left Friday to pick up his sister in her baby who are in a bad situation. To get all of her stuff out of the house, she also enlisted the help of two of her female friends.

My boyfriend and those friends drove 11 hours on Saturday to get to his sister who promptly decides she isn't okay with leaving her POS bf anymore. Now, they live in an apartment riddled with bullet holes, covered in garbage, and it has been broken into multiple times. Her brother (my bf) tries to get her to stay with him at all nearby hotel, but she refuses. This leaves him two options: stay at the apartment with his sister or stay at the hotel in the same room as the two other women (he can't afford a room on his own). The second of these scenarios is something I'm vehemently opposed to. I do not know these women and am simply not comfortable with my bf staying in a close quarters hotel room with two other women when I'm not there. It's important to note that we discussed this beforehand and I made my position clear.

So I don't hear from him almost all of yesterday until I finally get a text after midnight saying he made it back to the hotel and that it was really nice of the 2 women to let him sleep on the couch in their room. My heart froze. He essentially ignored my feelings and violated my trust by deciding to stay in a room with them. He didn't even call beforehand to explain any extenuating circumstances that would make staying with them the only viable option.

I'm furious. This, to me, is a betrayl. I made clear beforehand that scenario would not be okay with me, and he told me it wouldn't happen, but then he went ahead and did it anyway. I told him as much and he claims I'm being selfish. I don't know what to do...

On top of that, his sister's apartment got broken into again this morning which makes the cruel part of me want to scream "See! You should have stayed with her! This wouldn't have fucking happened!", but of course I won't say that.