Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - August 18, 2019

I hate ghosting SO SO SO much. I started dating this dream boat guy, and both of us swore to each other we wouldn’t ghost if things got weird. Well they got weird (I made them so - I was terrible to him at times). We went from texting every day for two months to ending in a huff after my last round of antics and not saying anything for 4 days. My nagging my promise not to ghost him kicked in, and I texted him in a mature way to apologize that it didn’t seem to be working out. He waited nearly 24hrs to reply (he usually does ASAP), and sent a paragraph about how fucked up I had been to him. It was fair, and I just said sorry again, and I’d definitely see him again but get if he doesn’t want to.

Never expected to hear from him again after that, and honestly felt really sad, because I realized that I actually valued and adored him a lot more than I let myself believe.

After a week of moping, I did a reading to see what the outcome of our relationship was, and got the lovers, 6 of wands (another lovey dovey card), and 8 of wands (a whirlwind/fast paced exciting romance). I wanted to throw my deck out the window! This is what I draw for someone who was no longer on speaking terms with me?!

Well... that night he texted me out of nowhere, asked what I was up to, and we had a fabulous time out and suddenly rekindled! I’ve never had an online date fizzle out and come roaring back in my life!

I’ve started to trust my own intuition with readings a bit more now. I kept pulling the 6 of wands over and over when a I thought of him and wanted to toss it in the garbage, and now I see why it came to me.

The cards I drew for you tell me story do someone who figured out what he wants and chose to move to something totally different. I’ve been there (as the recipient) many a time.

Wishing you the best!

/r/tarot Thread Parent