Weekly Relationship Check-In and Support Thread

I feel lost.

Yesterday my SO was driving me and their brother to target. Said something and I was in deep thought texting my mom and all of a sudden I’m now getting talked down to because I was “ ignoring them” then told me to keep my fucked up attitude. I was so lost ? I didn’t say anything except erase content from my phone ( pics data etc)

Once arriving home, it escalated to a huge argument where I wanted to leave. My SO started stating all these hurtful things to me and “ And you wonder why, don’t wonder why next time we didn’t work out. This is why you. This is why me. This is you you you you” I felt like the walls were crashing into me and I had no say. I then finally said I didn’t know they were talking to me specifically! The brother was also in the car and maybe they were talking to him too? He didn’t say anything either...

I then wanted to cry but didn’t. It’s just not fair that the minute my SO thinks I’ve done something so wrong they are the first one to lash out on me, state all that I’ve done and I’m the shitty one. I felt so tired... and even though after they broke down and said they were sorry and they are stressing out over other things and “ I don’t deserve you...” speech. I’m now just so confused and almost set back that my partner has all these negative things lined up to throw in my face for the next time I may “ piss them off”

Anyways happy Saturday to you all...

Ps we have been together 1.5 years now. This isn’t the first time this has happened.

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