Honestly golden rule has to go both ways. He has to want to be your soulmate and to be frank, it does not sound like it. Frankly, I try something new like in one of Neville stories of a girl feeling she had a wedding ring on and something to effect she felt herself happily married. I stop forcing on the "man" you have your eyes dead set on and just force on an end result without this "guy" being a part of it. If you force on the end result and this guy not directly apart of it but he comes back, will i eat my words.

Leaving world of neville for a sec, the world full of alpha's being chased by many girls. most of these alphas have zero intent on putting a ring on it. You have got to let such a man go AND force on end result of being happily married with no set man in mind.