Weird DMs from this sub?

Most likely correct. I am a Hapa, I'm Korean and Irish, and those guys in /r/Hapas can be a bit militant and a bit over the top. I've been accused by a few of them of being a troll, because I actually like my parents and don't think they are racists or fetishists. I've been told that my parents are fake because they were punks in the 70s and 80s, and they state that there's no way there could be a female Korean punk. If you have any experience with a WMAF couple that doesn't fit their narrative, you're in for a bad time, because to them, all WM in WMAF relationships are sexpats and all AF in WMAF relationships are self hating Asians. I'm fairly certain as well, that most of the "hapas" in /r/Hapas are actually nationalist Asian's sock puppetting as Hapas, or they are alt accounts of EurasianTiger's.

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