I did not lose my virginity until I was in my mid 20s. I was shy and introverted and just never really had the opportunity. and im not good looking, but I'm nice. just no game or confidence. I wondered if I was even worth fucking? Sometimes id go to a bar or club but I was uncomfortable and wanted to leave. the whole time thinking how the fuck am I supposed to impress some girl enough that they gonna want to leave with me, the music's too loud to even talk.

The girl I finally hooked up with was an ex of one of my friends, and she was way out of my league. she knew I was a virgin and didn't seem to care and i think was just horny that night. anyway once we hooked up i think something changed with me. it was such a boost to confidence. i had this new swagger and when I went out it was easier to talk to girls, and it seemed like they suddenly started noticing me. It was snowball effect, I started dressing better, get a good hair cut every couple weeks, morning exercise routine to get in better shape.

you got to believe you are worth fucking before a girl will. you do this by gaining confidence. in the beginning I had to fake the confidence.

you'll get there, if goofball me can do it for sure you can.

anyway the girl i lost my virginity to i ended up marrying and we have a 13yr old kid now.